Mother of a 6 year old boy diagnosed with ADHD and ODD: "When someone has a problem child, I think the common mistake made by most parents is focusing on the negative and thinking that punishments and consequences will change things. Although, this is a part of the changing process, this class has taught me that you must also focus on the positive and reinforce the good. Among many other things, it teaches techniques such as calming and listening skills."

Parents of a 10 year old boy diagnosed with ADHD, LD, OCD, Anxiety and explosive rages: DAD: "The program is designed to teach parents how to accept their child's problems, specify key issues, and then analyze them. The parent comes out much calmer and therefore more able to address the problems. It easily introduces the child into the same calming techniques used by the parent. The fact that the program is completely transparent (done so the child knows exactly what the parents are trying to achieve) is a great benefit." MOM: "This program I would highly recommend. It has helped me to see my son's problems more clearly and get him the help he needs. I am now able to help him in a positive way rather than enable him to avoid dealing with uncomfortable situations. I have a much better relationship with my husband and daughter as well. We communicate more clearly and calmly. I have also been able to be more comfortable in social situations with my son rather than avoid taking him out. This is a very worthwhile program.

Parents of a 12 year old girl diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, Depression and explosive rages: MOM: This program helped us to learn how to minimize confrontation with our twelve-year-old daughter. When we entered this program we felt so frustrated, but since the program we feel that we can at least manage our lives a little better and help our daughter to feel better about herself and it has made us feel better about ourselves as parents. This program is a must for all parents. It gives you the basic guidelines for becoming a better parent, learning how to cope and manage anger that will help with any relationship, not only with your child. The support of the other families helped a lot, it reassures you that you are not alone and it makes you feel good that you are trying to do something about it!!! DAD: When we started the group, our situation seemed hopeless. After a period of time that outlook changed. I learned that I wasn't a bad parent and my daughter wasn't a bad child. Other families had similar problems and we weren't alone.

Parents of a 14 year old boy diagnosed with Tourette's Syndrome and ODD: DAD: After three months of Dr. Kaufman's parent course, I have found a dramatic change in my relationship with my child with Tourette's Syndrome/ADHD. The communication lines are more open now. The most important thing is that I don't get upset when my son acts up. I have more control over my emotions and am able to work out the problem at hand. The challenge ahead will be to keep up with the praising, "20 minute time", family meetings, and active listening in order to keep the communication with our son up and the anger down. MOM: I gained much more insight about Michael's problems due to Dr. Kaufman's class. Before I began this Parent Training Program, I was stressed out and felt overwhelmed all the time. As a result of the training, I find myself much more controlled in dealing with my son and a lot more knowledgeable. Knowledge is the most powerful tool! Applying the breathing technique helped me stay calm. I gained a lot from special teen time and family feedback. It improved our relationship significantly!